May 142014
 

Mindy & Lana at the beach

Several years ago, I received an email from a woman who was very afraid. She’d just had her first child- a baby girl – and she’d also just learned that she had breast cancer. She was heading in for her first round of chemo the next day. She asked me to hold space for her.

The next day I asked all of you to do an act of kindness for her. We called it Mindy Monday. Mindy told me that as she received her chemo, she watched our list of acts grow and grow, and that we made her feel loved and brave. After much treatment and warrior-dom, Mindy went into remission. We celebrated.

Mindy and I became friends. Mindy was BRIGHT. Not just smart, bright – LIGHT, BRIGHT. Brilliant, really. She was a pediatrician. She healed children. She was a mama to Lana and a wife to Jordan and a chemosabe to Megan and a best friend to everyone else she met. Mindy and I wrote to each other often. We wrote about illness and healing and pain and parenthood and friendship and marriage and God and how all these things were so completely impossible and miraculous. We talked about how life felt like hell and heaven with not much in between.

When I got very sick with Lyme, Mindy sent me this. Then Mindy got sick again. Really, really sick. They told us it was just a matter of time, now.

Mindy had emergency surgery. During the surgery, they removed part of her brain. After that, our emails to each other were very different. Hers were short. One sentence, maybe. She was worried about her brain. She asked me to write back to her each day so that she could practice thinking and writing.

One day Mindy’s emails stopped coming.

I crawled into bed and stayed there for two days. My body was in deep, heavy pain. I told my family it was my Lyme. I knew it wasn’t my Lyme.  For two days I didn’t shower or really eat, I just laid there wondering what on Earth was happening to my body while knowing exactly what was happening to my body. On the third morning I woke up and I didn’t hurt anymore. Everything felt light again. I got out of bed and I opened up my computer and a message told me that Mindy had died. But I already knew that.

Lana’s mama is gone.

When I get to heaven, God and I are both going to have equal amounts of explaining to do.

I still feel Mindy. Today’s Love Flash Mob is for five families, but all of it is in honor of our Mindy.

For Mindy’s Lana.

First, we will raise a small fund for Lana.  Lana won’t get to be raised by her mama. Thank God, she is being raised by an incredible father named Jordan and a beautiful village made up of Mindy’s friends and family. Lana will KNOW – through them –  how incredible her mama was. But the fact remains that Lana didn’t get to be MOTHERED by Mindy for long enough. Mindy didn’t get to hold Lana’s hand and walk Lana into her LIFE. So we are going to step in and offer our hands.

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One day – when Lana is old enough – Jordan will hand Lana a box. Inside that box will be a letter from me. The letter will explain that her mother, Mindy, was such an incredible woman that one day in May, hundreds of thousands of women from all over the world came together and gave of themselves to create a Lana fund. When Lana opens that box, when she reads the letter and holds the check – she will understand both as gifts from her mother. Lana will understand that this box is her mother- walking her from her childhood into her adulthood. Holding her hand. Blessing her. THROUGH US. That is what is going to happen for Lana.

HERE IS WHAT IS GOING TO HAPPEN FOR MINDY: Mindy spent her life healing people. She healed them as a doctor with her big brain and she healed them with the love she so freely offered from her big heart. Even when she got sick – especially after she got sick – she kept on healing others. In Mindy’s honor, we are going to step into the lives of the following four women. Each of the women you are about to meet is an Angel to her family and community.  Each is also a Warrior fighting a battle against cancer.  And so we are going to step in and show these Angel Warriors that their lives are worth our time and our money and our love. We are going to SHOW UP FOR THEM TODAY because they show up for the world.

 

You guys, Mindy would like you to meet Tara.

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Tara is the 41-year old mother of Liam and Quinn. When Tara was 30 weeks pregnant with Quinn, she was diagnosed with colon cancer.  She is fighting. Every single day she is fighting so that she can stay here and keep mothering, keep healing, keep sistering, keeping living.

We are not going to offer Tara “charity” today. No – we are going to INVEST IN HER LIFE. We are going to raise money to pay her mortgage and to send Liam to preschool.

Tara: you are not alone. You are worthy of every ounce of love that comes your way today. Fight On. You have an army of warrior sisters beside you. All the love you offer those boys and the world comes back to you today. Catch it, sister.

 

Meet Eileen.

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Eileen does not raise children in her home- she raises them in her classroom. A woman named Tricia wrote to us about Eileen. Tricia’s son has Asperger syndrome and struggled in school. That’s until the year he walked into Eileen’s classroom. Eileen’s love and skill and determination invited Tricia’s son forward for the first time. Because of Eileen, Tricia’s son became who Tricia’s son was meant to be: bright, happy, confident, full of LIFE. Eileen is an Angel.

Eileen is also a Warrior. She was diagnosed with colon cancer recently. She is 32-years old. Her oncologist gave her two years to live. She said no, thank you to that offer. Eileen found another doctor who believes she can beat the stupid odds. She will need our help to pursue this treatment. We will help her. Eileen helped Tricia’s son and we will help Eileen.

Eileen: at Momastery, we believe that LOVE WINS. You are love, Eileen – so YOU HAVE ALREADY WON.

 

Meet Amanda.

This is Amanda. These are her three boys and her husband.

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Amanda was diagnosed with cervical cancer and after treatment she learned that she fell into the 5% of women who are not expected to recover. Amanda immediately began dedicating her life to raising money for women who cannot afford cancer treatment.  Since receiving her diagnosis, Amanda has raised over 40 thousand dollars for other cancer warriors. Yes, you read those sentences right.

Amanda might not have much time left. As her friend reported to us: “she plans to spend the rest of her days showing up for her boys sports and church and lunch dates, enjoying every family moment that God allows her — partly because she recognizes the gifts she has been given in this life and partly because she simply does not want to be forgotten.  She has decided to keep showing up for as long as her body will warrior on.”

Amanda’s friend told us that the beach is Amanda’s “happy place.” We are going to send Amanda and her precious boys and her warrior husband to the beach with whatever accommodations Amanda needs. We will make sure that very soon, very, very soon, Amanda is sitting with her toes in the sand – watching her boys splash in the ocean while holding her husband’s hand. That’s what needs to happen.

 And our Last Warrior.

I cannot tell you the names or offer you any pictures of our last family. Mama is very sick. She is fighting for custody of her baby boy, whose father is calling her cancer reason enough to remove her son from her home. For legal and privacy reasons, that is all we can tell you. But we know every detail. And we know this Angel Warrior is worthy of your love. Come alongside her. She will feel it. She needs to feel that the world has not abandoned her and instead is sending mighty forces to her aid. Those forces are YOU. You are being Sent.

I’ll leave you with a few words from Jordan, Mindy’s husband. Lana’s father:

“The story of my wife — how bright she shined and how fiercely she loved — is too detailed and spectacular to post here fully. So what I will say is Mindy loved Momastery. She loved this place because she loved people, and she recognized in Glennon someone who loved as fiercely as she. I know she would be proud to be memorialized here, and I know this community offered her hope and courage and love during hard times. Thank you for that.”-  Jordan

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HERE IS WHAT WE NEED YOU TO DO:

1. DONATE. You can make your tax-deductible donation by clicking on the “Angels & Warriors GIVE” button below.

2. SHARE.  PLEASE SHARE THIS POST. We have danced NO FLASH MOB BEFORE with a HIGHER GOAL and FEWER PEOPLE DANCING. Because of some changes to Facebook, fewer and fewer people are seeing Momastery posts which didn’t seem too horrible till Love Flash Mob time. THIS IS WHY I AM FREAKING OUT ABOUT THIS ONE. WE NEED YOUR HELP. Usually we ask you to DONATE. This time we ask you to DONATE AND SHARE. Please, please share today’s post with your people. Share on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram and the other ones I don’t know about. Mass e-mail your friends, call your parents, stand in your yard and read the essays loudly- whatever it takes. We need all the whos in whoville – the tall and the small.

3. DEDICATE. Every single one of us knows an Angel Warrior who was healed here or in the next world. If you’d like to donate in honor of someone you love, please leave his or her name in the comments here or on Facebook. Thousands will be reading and praying.

Okay. Let’s Do This. Go. Take YOUR COMPASSION AND LET IT GUIDE YOU. GO. Donate. Do not read this and FEEL but not act. Pity is feeling without acting. COMPASSION IS FEELING AND ACTING. ACT. Small acts with Great Love. That’s how this gets done. That is how Love Wins. We each have to MAKE LOVE WIN. On Earth as it is in Heaven.

LOVE FLASH MOB RULES:

  1. We can’t do great things. We can only do small things with great love.  And so NO ONE IS ALLOWED TO DONATE MORE THAN $25. EVERY DONATION MATTERS. Click here to see the miracles you have made through prior Love Flash Mobs.
  2. Because Monkee See- Monkee Do is an official 501(c)3, every penny of your donation is tax deductible.
  3. Any money we collect beyond what we need for these families will go to Monkee See – Monkee Do as we continue to meet the needs of families throughout the year. Every recipient of your generosity is vetted by our Board.
  4. Because the members of your Monkee See- Monkee Do Board work for free, WE HAVE NO OVERHEAD. EVERY PENNY YOU DONATE GOES DIRECTLY TO FAMILIES IN NEED.

I love you.

UPDATE AS OF 6:45 PM WED. NIGHT:

You guys. $118,473.50 in 8.5 hours. More than 5,500 donations. Average donation: $20. All five families will get what they needed from us.

So here’s the truth: We live in a world where people believe that We Belong To Each Other. We live in a world where people give away hard earned money to strangers. We live in a world where Love Wins. And we have PROOF. Right here.

I cannot stop crying and I will never, ever forget this day for as long as I live and I love you. I LOVE YOU. Tonight Liz gets to call the five families from today’s essay and tell them that YOU CAME THROUGH for them. She gets to call them and tell them that Help is Coming. Then I will call them tomorrow and eventually they will be like, “really- you guys can stop calling anytime now.”

You guys. THANK YOU. I cannot believe I get to do this life with you. I CANNOT BELIEVE IT. HOW DID WE GET SO LUCKY???? TO FALL TOGETHER AND THEN WALK THROUGH LIFE TOGETHER?? TO BECOME MEMBERS OF THIS CRAZY, UNBELIEVABLE, GRACE FILLED CREW?? All the tears. I cannot believe I have any tears LEFT.

I just emailed about the Love Flash Mob results to Amy and she wrote back this: “G, I have no words. Actually, I have one word: Mindy.”

Yes. That’s the word: Mindy. Thanks for your help today, Min.

Yours Forever and Ever and Ever and Ever-
G and Sister and Allison and Amy and Liz

The love that you pour out in these Love Flash Mobs continues year-round through the life-giving work of Monkee See – Monkee Do. Because MSMD is run by an all-volunteer Board, we have no overhead so all of your donations go directly to families. If you would like to to the MSMD general fund that supports families throughout the year, you may do so by clicking the button below. Your gifts help us sprinkle more of your radical, wild love all over other warrior families. As always, we will tell you ALL ABOUT IT. Because, of course, you ARE it. We can do hard things, Monkees. Together, We Can Do Hard Things. We DID hard things.




** Due to IRS Rules, because MSMD is an official 501(c)3 (tax-exempt non-profit), the MSMD Board is obligated to retain discretion over which beneficiaries will receive the funds raised today.  For example, if something happened to one of these families that meant the family was no longer an appropriate beneficiary, the Board would use those funds for beneficiaries that meet the charitable purposes of the organization. Since MSMD’s inception, we have never used funds for a purpose other than the purpose identified when the funds were raised. **



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Author of the New York Times Bestselling Memoir CARRY ON, WARRIOR
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May 132014
 

When we are asked what we want out of life, we say:  I want to make a difference. I want joy. I want peace.

But when we’re asked how we’re going to get these things- we say we don’t know. Our paths aren’t clear, we insist. We don’t know what to do next. We don’t know how to find our calling.  We feel a little lost.

Last year, I sat in church thinking about the gap between what we know we want and what we actually have, and how to bridge that gap. As I was thinking, I was singing along in my hymn book, and my eyes fell upon the word compassion. I love the word compassion. I tell my children that when they feel the familiar ache of compassion in their hearts- they are to assume that God is saying, “HELP! One of my children needs you. Do something!” I ask my children to ACT when they feel compassion.  I explain that compassion is NOT your heart’s pain in my heart. That’s pity. Compassion is YOUR HEART’S PAIN INTO MY HEART AND THEN OUT THROUGH MY HANDS. Real compassion demands action.

And then I noticed something special. Look at the first part of the word compassion.

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We all wonder – what should I do next? Where do I turn? What step do I take? How do I find what my peace, my joy, my connectedness? What if the voice of compassion IS OUR INTERNAL COMPASS? What if all we have to do to get what we need down here is run towards the very things and people and places that break our hearts? And when we get there…what if all we have to do is reach out our arms, open our hands and hold space?

Tomorrow I am going to ask you to RUN TOWARDS SOME PRECIOUS FAMILIES. I need you to read their stories and look at their pictures. And while you do, please pay close attention to your own body. Please notice how you feel. If you feel that familiar tug of compassion, let it be your compass. Let it be the voice that says- TRY IT. GIVE THIS FAMILY WHAT THEY NEED, AND THEN SEE IF THAT OFFERING RETURNS TO YOU WHAT YOU NEED. See, if just for tomorrow, ­offering a stranger radical love provides you with the senses of peace, belonging, joy, and empowerment you’re searching for. Let compassion be your compass tomorrow.

LOVE FLASH MOB RULES:

  1. We can’t do great things. We can only do small things with great love. And so NO ONE IS ALLOWED TO DONATE MORE THAN $25. EVERY DONATION MATTERS.
  2. Because Monkee See- Monkee Do is an official 501(c)3, every penny of your donation is tax deductible.
  3. Any money we collect beyond what these families need will go to Monkee See – Monkee Do as we continue to meet the needs of families throughout the year. Every recipient of your generosity is thoroughly vetted by our board.
  4. Because the members of your Monkee See- Monkee Do Board work for free – WE HAVE NO OVERHEAD. EVERY PENNY YOU DONATE GOES DIRECTLY TO FAMILIES IN NEED.

While we wait with GREAT HOPE AND ANTICIPATION for tomorrow- please look back on the magic that has been made by our previous four Love Flash Mobs. On those sacred days, we followed our internal compasses and we offered these families what they needed – and then we learned that what we really needed was to believe that we live in a world where LOVE WINS and WHERE STRANGERS BELONG TO EACH OTHER. And the way we make that true is that we MAKE THAT TRUE.

Kairos for the Croyles:

Our first Love Flash Mob was held on 2/9/2012 in order to raise money for a precious mama, Kristen – who was dying of cancer and wanted to take her family of ten on their first and last vacation together.

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You raised $25,100 in ten hours to send the family on a vacation of a lifetime.  Kristin Croyle has since passed away, and her family tells us they continue to cherish the sacred memories of that week together. Kristen’s husband came to visit me recently at a book signing in Ohio. It was brutiful.

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The Van-Tastic Love Flash Mob:

Our second Love Flash Mob was held on 5/9/12 in honor of Mother’s Day. In that LFM, we raised over $83,000 in 51 hours in order to buy two vans for ill mothers who needed equipped vehicles to care for themselves and their families. Precious Claudia was one of the van recipients. Mindy was the other. I got to meet Mindy several months later at the PHI fundraiser. By then her hair was all gone, but she was smiling. Mindy is brutiful and these ladies have become heroes of mine.

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Project Home Indy:

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The LFM held on 3/5/13 was MSMD’s third LFM.  We raised $85,000 in five and a half hours in increments of $25 or less, so that Project Home Indy could bring a teenage mom and her young son without a home into PHI to live and thrive.  More than 15 people gave greater than $250 cumulatively per minute for 5 ½ hours in order to reach our goal.  All told, more than 4,500 people from 14 different countries gave toward the effort.

When people were still so moved to give after the initial goal had been met, we kept the LFM open until midnight to collect additional resources for MSMD families that had been waiting for help.  By midnight, we had raised $110,000.  In total, more than 6,000 people contributed.

Here are some examples of what we did (and continue to do) with the funds that were raised in excess of the $85k needed for PHI:

  • We sent household items to a single mom with young son who left an abusive relationship and just got a job to support her son.
  • We sent funds to an 8th grade group of Girl Scouts making fleece blankets and hygiene kits for a local domestic violence center (they wanted to give something to folks who are at a crossroads in their life and to give each child who enters the shelter a warm fuzzy blanket that they can call their own).
  • Sent a vacuum to a mom whose toddler son has several respiratory issues and their vacuum just died;
  • Sent funds to the family of a little boy born with severe heart disease, has had several surgeries and whose father lost job due to being out of work for all the travel; and
  • Sent funds to support an organization that provides a weighted teddy bear to families who have lost a child at a late stage in utero.  The bears are weighted to the child’s “birth” weight.

Guardian Angel Service Dogs:

The LFM held on 9/17/13 was our fourth LFM. The goal was to raise enough to provide four alert dogs as guardian angels and companions for children desperately in need of canine companions.  Two children suffered from Type 1 Diabetes and needed diabetic alert dogs in order to participate in life in ways we take for granted – go to school, visit a friend’s home, sleep through the night.  The two other children posed high risks for wandering away into dangerous situations – one as a result of autism and the other as a result of Down Syndrome.  MSMD exceeded the goals of the LFM by a landslide:  One hundred thousand dollars was raised in six hours – with maximum donations of $25 each.  In total, $120,288 was raised in just twelve hours.

Here is Piper and her Raven.

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You guys. You know I started sweating as soon as this Love Flash Mob began to form- which was a month ago. BECAUSE THIS IS A VERY CAREFUL PROCESS- THE FAMILIES WE ARE MOBBING KNOW THAT TOMORROW IS THE DAY. THEY WILL BE WATCHING AND WAITING AND PRAYING THAT WE CARE ENOUGH TO PULL THROUGH.

Please show up. Show up tomorrow, friends. With small offerings and big love.

Hopeful and Sacred Scared and Grateful That Sister Flew to Florida To Hold My Hand for the Next 48 Hours,

G



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May 092014
 

Friends, Got This Email Yesterday:

Glennon, you are a mess. Perhaps you should wait until you’re a stable human being before you write to thousands of people?- Tina*

Tina, Hello. The theory I think you’re suggesting is that we should improve ourselves before we show up for life.  I do not subscribe to that theory. There are already PLENTY of people writing about how stable and fine and smooth and lovely life is. That’s not really my bag. My job is not to become a stable, perfect human being with a smooth life and then write about it. My job is just to keep showing up and keep being a messy, beautiful, fully human being in front of other fully human beings.

I think self-improvement is a crappy closet in which to lock oneself. Like addiction or snark, self-improvement is just another hiding place. People who live in the world of self -improvement never seem to enter the world of WORLD improvement. We only have two jobs down here: 1) Follow Our Dreams and 2) Serve our Brothers and Sisters. The cool thing is that they go together. If we’re following our deepest, truest dream- the outcome of that is always service. And so we just need to get started.

I think the main reason people DON’T get started with their two simple jobs is that they are waiting to “be better” first. That sounds like this: I just need to be more patient or smarter or thinner or braver or more stable or more whatever before I get started. When we subscribe to that theory we never, ever get started. Because people don’t really change that much. We really don’t “improve” significantly. Especially by the time we’re my age- 38- it’s probably time to accept that we’re already pretty much who we’re gonna be. I mean, the fact is that nobody who writes a haiku about me is EVER gonna put the word “stable” in it. So I’ve just decided that instead of saying:  I NEED TO IMPROVE! it’s more brave and kind to say: MAYBE I’M GOOD ENOUGH FOR MY LIFE AS I ALREADY AM. That’s what I tell myself each day. I just assume that even though I’m messy, I’m good enough to provide whatever the day calls for. And then I just go ahead and show up –  all jacked up.

Look at what can happen when you just show up all jacked up, Tina. This happened on Sunday night at Trinity Presbyterian Church in Herndon, Virginia.  Here’s the backstory. As a response to the love of Zach’s warrior mama, Rachele –  1229 Zach Attack packages were sent to more than 80 sacred locations to celebrate Warrior Mamas this Mother’s Day.

450 people showed up at Trinity, Tina. Not a single one of them was perfect. Many of them almost didn’t come, because it’s just completely nerve wracking to show up at an event like this.  Especially alone. It’s so much easier to stay home. Still, they showed up. Every single one of them was fighting some sort of battle- trouble at home, trouble at work, trouble in their hearts. They just showed up anyway, all jacked up. And because of that, all this magic happened. These 450 imperfect women bought tickets that made these Zach Attack packages possible, and the wrote hundreds of cards of encouragement to Warrior Mamas across the country, and they assembled, boxed and labeled the boxes.  And then took them to the post office to deliver to strangers – Warrior Sisters – fighting battles nationwide.

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Becca. the Love Wins Minister at Trinity. I love her.

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I’ll let someone who was in the audience describe the feeling in that room. For me- it was ridiculous- pure joy. We told the TRUTH to each other. We laughed hysterically and cried till we couldn’t see. It was one of the most INTIMATE conversations I’ve ever had- and I was with 450 people.

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That’s Rachele, Zach’s mama.

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That’s my mama. Standing up to comfort a man who was feeling shame because he couldn’t save his daughter from her eating disorder. He asked me if my parents ever felt guilt for not being able to save me as a child. He didn’t know my parents were in the audience. Tisha stood up and looked right at him and she was such a brave truth teller. She told him yes, every day of her life. It was a moment.

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And then Bubba stood up and offered a monologue about why we should take it easier on our husbands. We laughed, but you know, we didn’t take notes or anything. 

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These are the books that Monkees all over the country sent to be put into the Zach Attack packages. Thank you, Monkees. I want you to know that I thought long and hard about how to MAGNIFY your generosity. I waived my speaking fee so that every penny of the tickets could go towards the packages – and we donated 600 t-shirts and brutiful cards and stationary to make the packages even more wonderful. Trinity then donated all the bags and tissue paper to create the packages, and Monkee after Monkee volunteered to brave the cost and inconvenience of the post office to get them mailed. YOUR SMALL ACTS OF GREAT LOVE started a LOVE FIRESTORM. Loaves and Fishes up in here, folks. 

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That’s Zach’s mama, Rachele. She just lost her baby ONE year ago. She sure as hell wasn’t “ready” to show up. But she did. She flew from Minnesota to help Love Win. Here she’s writing a note of support to a struggling mama she doesn’t even know. Her love and grief is her FUEL. We Can Do Impossible Things Because We Belong To Each Other.

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This is Liz. She runs the show at Monkee See- Monkee Do. She shows up EVERYDAY to make LOVE WIN for strangers. She is one of my heroes. THANK YOU, LIZ. 

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 This is the face that launched a thousand (1229) Warrior Mama Zach Attack Packages.

We don’t self-improve and THEN world improve. We show up all jacked up in order to World Improve. Before we’re improved ourselves, before we’re ready, before we’re perfect. And we love people and allow ourselves to be loved. AND THAT IMPROVES US. Let’s not put the cart before the horse.  World Improvement before Self Improvement, Tina. All my Love to you. Mean it.

G

P.S. The Zach Attack packages were sent to more than 80 locations, all chosen from your Monkee nominations, including the following places where Mama Warriors reside:

MUSC Childrens Hospital (Charleston, SC)
Whitehorse Child Development Centre (Whitehorse Yukon, Canada)
Providence Christian Church Women’s Center (Clovis, CA)
Dopkins Reedley Funeral Chapel for Stillborns & Infants (Reedley, CA)
Family Links/North Valley Youth & Family Center (San Fernando, CA)
Yale’s Children’s Oncology Ward (Wallingford, CT)
Central Nova Women’s Resource Centre (Truro Nova Scotia, Canada)
The Durham Child Development & Behavorial Health Clinic Support Group (Durham, NC)
Candelighters Childhood Cancer Foundation (Las Vegas, NV)
Mary Washington Hospital NICU (Fredericksburg, VA)
Starpoint family support group for children w development disabilities (Canon City, CO)
St Ann’s MOPS Mother’s Day project for Single Moms (Stoughton, WI)
Marillac Place, shelter for young homeless mothers (Kitchener, Ontario, Canada)
Ronald McDonald House Charities of Baltimore Inc. (Baltimore, MD)
Child Epilepsy Project (Colorado Springs, CO)
Advocate Children’s Hospital (Park Ridge, IL)
Children’s Hospital Boston- Cardiac ICU (Boston, MA)
California Pacific Medical Center NICU (San Francisco, CA)
Children’s Hospital of Philadelphia Special Delivery Unit (Philadelphia, PA)
Maggie’s Place, home for expectant homeless mothers (Phoenix, ZA)
"more than words" Pediatric Therapy Associates, Inc. (Valdosta, GA)
Duke Center for Eating Disorders (Durham, NC)
Ronald McDonald House (Rochester, MN)
Faith’s Lodge, refuge for families facing child’s death or serious illness (Danbury, WI)
Shepherd’s Gate, supporting women to end homelessness, abuse & addiction (Livermore, CA)
The Children’s Bereavement Center (San Antonio, TX)
Hubbard House, domestic violence shelter (Jacksonville, FL)
Alpha House of Tampa, safe house for pregnant women & children (Tampa, FL)
Hope Lutheran Church (Jordan, MN)
Cincinnati Children’s Hospital NICU (Cincinnati, OH)
Kids On The Move (Orem, UT)
Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center (New York, NY)
Central Community Health Board Drug Services (Cincinnati, OH)
American Family Children’s Hospital (Madison, WI)
Stillbrave Childhood Cancer Foundation (Springfield, VA)
FACETS, supporting homeless and low income (Fairfax, VA)
The Meyer Center for Special Children (Greenville, SC)
Cleveland Clinic Children’s Hospital for Rehabilitation (Cleveland, OH)
Twin Cities Church Single Mom’s Group (Grass Valley, CA)
Hazelden Center for Youth and Families (Plymouth, MN)
Randall Children’s Hospital at Legacy Emanuel PICU (Portland, OR)
Elizabeth House, homeless shelter (Pasadena, CA)
Promedica Toledo Children’s Hospital (Toledo, OH)
St. Luke’s Children’s Neurology (Boise, ID)
Matthew’s Crossing Food Bank (Chandler, AZ)
House of Ruth, ending homelessness & abuse (Washington, DC)
Children’s Hospital & Medical Center (Omaha, NE)
Morningstar Women and Family Recovery Center (Joliet, IL)
West Texas Rehab Center (Abilene, TX)
Maddie’s Footprint, supporiting families through miscarriages, stillbirths & loss of an infant (Lafayette, LA)
Hackerman-Patz House, a homelike place to live while family is hospitalized (Annapolis, MD)
Tate House, Hospice of Chesapeake (Linthicum Heights, MD)
Focus:Hope, anti-racism & anti-poverty non-profit (Detroit, MI)
Manna House, transitional housing for women and children (Cliffwood Beach, NJ)
Therapy Buddies, support group for families of children receiving therapy (Bloomingdale, IL)
New Life for Girls, residential treatment supporting recovery from addiction, eating disorders & sexual abuse (Westminster, MD)
Helen DeVos Children’s Hospital Pediatric Hematology Unit (Grand Rapids, MI)
Children’s National Medical Center (Washington, D.C.)
The Hole in the Wall Gang, camp for children with serious illness (Ashford, CT)
Kennedy Krieger Institute (Baltimore, MD)
Grace House, shelter for women & children (E Wenatchee, WA)
Abington Memorial Hospital Special Care Nursery (Abington, PA)
The Blume Pediatric Hematology and Oncology Clinic (Charlotte, NC)
Sunrise House Mother and Me Residential Treatment Center (Lafayette, NJ)
Dayton Children’s Hospital (Dayton, OH)
Ernie J Norman Center for Homeless Women and Children (Grand Forks, ND)
Kadlec Regional Medical Pediatric Center (Richland, WA)
The Tomorrow Fund, supporting children with cancer (Providence, RI)
The Children’s Hospital of Oklahoma (Oklahoma City, OK)
University of Minnesota Children’s Hospital, Bone Marrow Transplant Unit (Minneapolis, MN)
BDI Playhouse, pediatric therapy providers (Naperville, IL)
INOVA Children’s Hospital, PICU (Falls Church, VA)
Mercy House Women’s Shelter for Homeless Families (Harrisonburg, VA)
Children’s Mercy Hospital (Kansas City, MO)
EnCompass – Amethyst Place, Transitional Housing for Women in Recovery & their Children (Kansas City, MO)
The Gingerbread House, Child Advocacy Center (Morganton, NC)
Al DuPont Hospital for Children (Wilmington, DE)
Vera House, supporting survivors of domestic & sexual violence (Syracuse, NY)
Midland Children’s Rehab Center (Midland, TX)

Thank you, Thank you, Thank you.  For all 600 Monkees from across the country who sent books for this project, and for all the women who showed up in Herndon on Sunday to do this good, important work, and for Rachele who teaches us to show up before we’re ready. Not a single one of us perfect- but every single one of us is good enough to make a difference.

 *Names have been changed to protect the precious.



Carry On, Warrior
Author of the New York Times Bestselling Memoir CARRY ON, WARRIOR
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