Mar 292010

Lou asked for a Guest Post from Tisha, and what Lou wants, Lou gets. I found this letter recently while I was scrounging through Craig’s dresser, looking for money.

December, 2009

Dear Craig,

It’s 4:00 in the morning and Bubba is sound asleep. I have been awake for a while, just lying in bed. As I laid there, I began thinking of our family and all that we have gone through with Glennon’s diagnosis during the past ten days. Feelings of gratitude and appreciation filled my heart. I realized I wanted to come to the computer and write to you.

As you know very well, our little G-bird is a passionate person who uses all her energy to accomplish what she feels she must do. I know it takes a lot of energy to live with someone who lives passionately. I am so grateful that she is married to a man who supports and encourages her to follow her passions. She wanted so much to be Tishy’s preschool teacher and experience the magical world of preschool aged children. You helped her make that happen and it wasn’t easy. You converted your downstairs to a school which took away badly needed space. You supported her in financing the supplies and furniture necessary to create her “dream classroom.” You assumed care of the children when she needed to prepare lessons. G got her chance to live out this dream and you helped her make it happen.

You continue to support and encourage her with Momastery. I admire the journey you are taking as parents and as young adults trying to find the best road to travel. The fact that you are partners in this journey provides much of the substance of Momastery. Most importantly, though, it is your confidence that she does have special talents and your faith that she should be doing what she is doing that motivates her to spread her wings and fly. G has her chance to write and you helped make it happen.

For the support and encouragement of her spirit and for the faith you have in Glennon, I am truly grateful. Yet I am even more grateful for something else you do for her. Last Monday morning when Glennon was so very ill, you called me to ask how much further I had to go to get to your home. You sounded in charge and in control. When I hung up, I realized that despite the calm in your voice, you and I were both frightened but trying to remain composed. Of course I prayed for God to cleanse G’s body of anything that could hurt her, and I prayed for me to arrive safely and quickly to your home to take care of the children, but I also said a prayer of thanks that you were the one who was with her. You always do what is best for Glennon. I feel so grateful to have a son-in-law in whom I can always put my faith and trust. You always make decisions which will support her and protect her.

When your child becomes an adult, you no longer have the power to do what needs to be done to see that she is safe and protected. But to know that there is someone there taking over for you, who makes decisions carefully, thoughtfully, and unselfishly, because he loves her with his whole heart…that gives a parent peace. Thank you so much for my peace.

In one of Glennon’s blog entries about her recovery she wrote, “Craig is the only person who could have saved me.” I thank God for bringing you to her. And I thank you for loving her the way you do. I am Forever Grateful. Merry Christmas!

Love, Tisha

I love my mama. Deep breaths today, Monkees. Love, G

Carry On, Warrior
Author of the New York Times Bestselling Memoir CARRY ON, WARRIOR
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Mar 262010

Hey Sweet Monkees.

It’s come to my attention that many Monkees are also entrepreneurs. One of the rules in our Momastery is that business dies here, which I think is a good rule because it helps us view each other as potential friends instead of potential customers. This is important. But I thought it might be fun if we lifted the ban this weekend and had ourselves a Monkee Business Day, or three. Because I looooove me some women who are moving and shaking and putting some bacon on the table, and I like to support those women. I also loooove women who are providing no bacon, like, for example, me. Please understand that I’m not making a judgment about bacon providers or no bacon providers, God, no. Let’s not go there again. As a matter of fact, I’m not allowed to eat bacon anymore and we all know that even if I were, I wouldn’t know how to fry it. You do fry bacon right? Anyway, enough about bacon. I’m not sure how we got so off topic. I’m sweating again.

I love you Monkees, and I want to help you in any way I can. I think that’s all I’m trying to say. So in an effort to support and honor all Monkee endeavours, let’s try this today… let’s lift the business ban. I’d like to know what it is that ya’ll do and sell because I like buying things from people who are trying hard not to be jerks. I think non-jerks are lovely people with whom to do business.

If you’d like to, please leave a link to your business, non-profit, blog . . . whatever you’d like us to check out and/or a description in the comments section. Also, if you’re looking for a job, that might also be good to mention. ALSO…please leave the same the information on the Momastery Facebook Page and once you leave it there, the page will archive your link and Monkees will be able to search for you at their convenience. Maybe Jeanette or Jennifer could think of some cool way to organize the Monkee Businesses on the FB page because they seem smart at that.

I pray I have offended no one in any sort of bacony way with all of this Monkee Business.

I love you all. Have a WONDERFUL weekend.

Love, G

Carry On, Warrior
Author of the New York Times Bestselling Memoir CARRY ON, WARRIOR
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